Relationship Quiz
Questions and Answers

  1. You know that you are in a healthy relationship when…

    You solve problems like teammates not opponents

  2. You get your needs met by…

    Discussing your needs and feelings fully and securing consent on which needs can be addressed

  3. You handle disappoints by…

    Verbalizing your hurt feelings, request specific change and gain feedback about your request.

  4. The way you solve problems is by…

    Developing a solution together that honors both of you

  5. Couples who stay together have less arguments and fights than those who get divorce?

    False

  6. Cohabitation before marriage increases the chances that a couple will stay together after marriage?

    False

  7. Cohabitation gives you a mirror of how your mate will act after marriage?

    False

  8. Couples who argue a lot should...

    Learn effective problem solving skills

Using the same method you know even though you see that it is not working.


Studies show that couples who remain in loving relationships and those that divorce have the same frequency of disagreements. The difference between whether or not couples last is dependent on the tools and strategies used to solve the conflicts.

Remember: Long after you forget about what you argued about, you will remember how you felt.